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  • Lena Dunham Wants To See Zachary Quinto Naked, Too

    I mean, it’s Girls, so you can assume what you will. I also want to see him naked — that’s all you need to know for now. I can tell you nothing except that he is as amazing onscreen as he is off. He is so much fun to work with and the minute that camera is on he’s […]
  • Man Learns He Was Intentionally Infected With HIV Via Facebook Message

    Imagine the man you love lying about his HIV status to intentionally infect you with the virus, and then learning what he’s done from a stranger on Facebook. That’s what happened to one San Diego man, who recently told 10News that his boyfriend, Thomas Guerra, did just that. “I don’t even know who I was living with,” the man, whose […]
  • Park That Attitude: The Danger Of Trans Activist Parker Molloy

    This is an essay that I never wanted to write, especially after my most recent Huffington Post article on unity within the LGBT. Sadly, life has a way of interfering with one’s intentions, and that is what has happened on this occasion. Only a couple of days ago a prominent transgender activist and writer with whom […]
  • Shock Your Conservative Relatives With This Kinky Wearable Art

    Erotic art will never go out of style, no matter how few clicks it takes to go from the Google homepage to any kind of porn you can humanly conceive of. There’s something sexy about a drawing of someone sexy — it’s pure imagination, it’s a total tease and has just a modicum of taboo. Should I really […]
  • Here’s A Preview Of Jeffrey Tambor Playing A Trans Parent In ‘Transparent’

    Before we go restarting the debate over self-identified men playing trans roles, can we just all agree that the upcoming Amazon series Transparent starring Jeffrey Tambor looks honest and heartfelt? The show follows the story of a middle-aged trans woman (Tambor) with three adult children (one of whom is a lesbian) coming out of the closet […]
  • Australian Man Bites Other Man’s Penis Half-Off During Attempted Rape

    A man in Queensland, Australia has learned the hard way why you shouldn’t attempt to rape people. He had his penis bitten half-off after allegedly trying to ram it down another man’s throat early Sunday morning. Neither of the men’s names have been released, so for the sake of clarity, we’ll refer to the alleged rapist as Man #1 and […]
  • Napa Bears Launch #WineBucketChallenge

    In the aftermath of Sunday’s Napa Valley earthquake, local gay activists Eric Oesterle and husband Rob Doughty (popular Bay Area DJ Rotten Robbie) decided to launch a fresh riff on the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge. Initiating their “Napa Earthquake Wine Bucket Challenge” on YouTube, the duo’s hilariously Carrie-esque venture into viral video has already nabbed […]
  • John Stamos Takes It Off, Russell Tovey Gets Comfy With Jonathan Groff, While Henry Cavill Gets Soaked As Superman

    What keeps 51-year-old John Stamos looking so delicious and youthful? Does he secretly drink the blood of the Olson twins? NewNowNext thinks it might be all that delicious Greek yogurt he hawks on TV. Whatever it is, we’d like to have some. What Emmy snub? Looking costars Jonathan Groff, Russell Tovey and Murray Bartlett snuggled on the sofa to watch the awards together […]
  • These Gay Celebrity Couples Make Love Look Grand

    To celebrate the release of Love Is Strange this weekend, we’ve taken a look at six gay celebrity couples whose relationships mirror those of the film’s main characters, played by John Lithgow and Alfred Molina. In the film, Lithgow and Molina play a gay couple learning to adapt to life’s uncertainty and accepting its hurdles as opportunities […]
  • PHOTOS: Hot Burning Men

    Burning man plays week-long host to thousands of hot men, literally. The queer friendly celebration is becoming a gay mecca, and this year is no exception. This is the one instance where most of us would actually love being stranded in the middle of the Nevada desert. No Grindr, no problem. Here’s your guide to making […]

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There's a pretty big intersection between geeks and gamers; I've met some great people from this site.
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A safe space for LGBT people, this seems to be more focussed on support and the newly coming-out.

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