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  • Queer Stories: I’m From Driftwood’s First Live Storytelling Event

    I’m From Driftwood, which records true stories by LGBTQ people from all over the world, presented its first live event after developing stories with The Moth, a non-profit storytelling organization in New York City.Driftwood creator Nathan Manske presented the stories at Videology in Williamsburg, Brooklyn on October 19th. The archive aims to help LGBTQ people learn more about […]
  • Dress You Up: 10 Amazingly Gay Halloween Costume Ideas

    It’s that spooky time of year again… Halloween! Otherwise known as a “huge celebration in the LGBT world, especially for the gender-confused folks” of “Satanic origins.” (At least according Linda Harvey, that is.) We love getting back to our Satanic roots by dressing up and engaging in all sorts of tomfoolery and debauchery while we celebrate what is truly the greatest — and gayest — […]
  • PHOTOS: The High Flying Andrew Christian BLOW! Fashion Show

    On Oct. 16, Andrew Christian turned it up and turned it out for the debut of his all new BLOW! collection at the Abbey in Los Angeles. All your favorite familiar faces were there to show off the sexy collection. Murray Swanby gave us an upside down view by hanging off the rafters. Pablo Hernandez danced […]
  • Straight Men Are A Lot More Bisexual Than You Might Think

    Pornhub recently released data on the top porn searches broken down by gender. The survey found “gay male porn” as the second highest searched topic by straight women. This begs the question: What about straight dudes? How many of them are also looking at man-on-man porn? And what might be their motivations for doing so? Being the curious […]
  • Eternity Beckons For Actor Barrett Crake With His New ’80s-Themed Comedy

    If you go see the clever new musical-comedy Eternity: The Movie, you’ll relive the regrettable fashion choices, synthesized riffs and the power ballads that dominated the music scene in 1985. Actor Barrett Crake costars in the film, which is also produced, as Todd Lucas, a naive songwriter from the Midwest who befriends BJ, a brash saxophonist from The Valley, […]
  • Dolly Parton Says Gay Fans Relate To The Personal Struggles She’s Gone Through

    They know that I completely love and accept them, as I do all people. I’ve struggled enough in my life to be appreciated and understood. I’ve had to go against all kinds of people through the years just to be myself. I think everybody should be allowed to be who they are, and to love […]
  • San Francisco Nightlife Takes A Hit With The Closing Of A Queer Institution

    San Francisco’s once-mighty queer scene is about to contract yet again, with the imminent closing of legendary dyke bar The Lexington Club. The Lex was part of a wonderful constellation of fun, gritty neighborhood watering holes that have one by one dried up as the city systematically evicts all of its old tenants to make room for […]
  • Who Had The Most Memorable Coming Out Of 2014?

    2014 was a good year for big coming out stories, and why shouldn’t it be? It’s as great a time as ever to be gay. But some closet door bustdowns are more memorable than others. Which one reigns supreme? You decide! Sports got a whole lot gayer this year, especially with Ian Thorpe and the highly publicized Michael […]
  • Gay Jesus Gets Crucified In Steamy New Homoerotic Passion Of The Christ Book

    Well, this is certainly going to have more than a few people totally pissed off. A new book by author Kittredge Cherry and illustrator Douglas Blanchard puts a gay spin on the crucifixion of Mr. Jesus Cristo. The Passion of Christ: A Gay Vision features 24 stunning illustrations of a 21st century Christ figure, clad in designer jeans, as he […]
  • Cut Or Uncut: Which Do You Prefer?

    Male foreskin has always been a hotly contended issue among the sexually active. Some people love the sight of a throbbing uncut cock, while others find them to be garish and unsightly. Then, of course, there are those who don’t have a preference either way. Cosmo recently spoke with two men– one gay and one straight — about their […]

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One of the best online communities I've ever been a part of, but sadly very London-centric.
There's a pretty big intersection between geeks and gamers; I've met some great people from this site.
Gay Intellectuals @ Gay.Com
Some folks at got tired of the emphasis on searching by penis length and tried to inject some culture into what is frankly a cesspit of a site. This is their own independent web presence.
A safe space for LGBT people, this seems to be more focussed on support and the newly coming-out.

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Skewering the intolerant right, the adorable Jeremy covers politics daily from a gay perspective.
Bittorrents of gay movies. The old forum owed a lot of its popularity to people accidentally ending up here while looking for this place.